It's in every human's nature, when we are in pain, to want to hold our breath. Hold our breath, close our eyes and just get through it 'til it's over. Somehow we think that if we stop breathing the pain will stop too. But it doesn't work that way. Holding our breath never helps. It actually makes things worse. That's why they teach pregnant women breathing techniques to use during labor. It's why when our kids get hurt and start crying we tell them, "Just breathe, Just breathe, Just breathe". Because we all know that even when it hurts, goes against our instinct and is the last thing we want to do...
The same thing is true in our spiritual lives. Sometimes when we are hurting the last thing we want to do is "breathe". Or at least it becomes more difficult.
"Breathing" spiritually is God. It's spending time with God. Talking to Him, reading His Word, letting Him in on what's going on with us and looking to him for help.
“It takes more than bread to stay alive. It takes a steady stream of words from God’s mouth.”
-Matthew 4:4 (the message)
God breathed the breathe of life into us (Genesis 2:7) and he is the breathe of life within in us.
Spiritually we have to spend time with God in order to
The problem is that a lot of the time when we are in pain emotionally we don't want to spend time with God. It makes us feel vulnerable. We think the pain will stop if we just close our eyes, grin and bear it. Besides sometimes God himself is the one we feel upset with. But we can't get better if we stop breathing. If we stop breathing we die.
A few weeks back I was feeling fairly confused and upset about something. Normally when I get out of sorts like this I'll just go have it out on my keyboard. I'll sing, play, pray and get the junk out. But this time it seemed like just the same old thing that kept happening over again. I was tired of it. Oh poor me (yada yada). And I didn't want to get vulnerable about it. I wanted to close it off. So I randomly started cleaning my sons room that was pretty much already clean. It was in the midst of this un-needed cleaning frenzy I heard Him say, "It Doesn't Help To Hold Your Breath. "
When you are hurting...
He will make it better.